Wednesday, October 21, 2009

How is Married Life ?

The strangest question you get to hear after you are married for a month is "How is married life ?"
How on earth are you supposed to answer that question??

Are you supposed to say -
a. I miss my mom too much
b. I cant seem to sync up to the routine in the new house
c. I am still getting used to the food
d. Yes am gloriously happy [which should be taken with a pinch of salt :P]
e. If you don't know what to say just shut up

I remember asking newly married girls that , how is married life , now i know the hesitation ... and the thought behind the "O, its OK" or "O, it is great" ....

Anyways the another crazy question is "How was your honeymoon?" Again, how are you supposed to answer that ? The question is accompanied by a sly smile .. my only thought is "Are you serious ? "

Now are you supposed to say
a. Brilliant , i saw stars of all the galaxies ;)
b. Great I had never been to a 7 star resort , now I can cross that off of my list of things to do
c. I was too busy trying to get used to the feeling that am married
d. Again, are you serious ?? Can you expect me to bare my soul to you?


These are the regular questions you get after your wedding ........ these are questions with no answers. I have learnt to just shrug my shoulders and say it was OK , to soften the flow , smile.

2 comments:

S.. Diva said...

how is married life? -> did you get along with in-laws without friction?
how was honeymoon? -> which places did you visit?

answers to those question are probably what people exepect

Life Goes On ! said...

:) ... nopes ... anyone married will tell u that ...
Lets see how u get along when u r married ...