Everyone asks me how do i feel ??
Well first of all I think that all the wedding excitement and the anticipation is over rated ... what is the point I don't know the ritual or the mantra really means .... i just have to follow instructions ... I have no say in anything ... All those rituals have no legal stake ... so again why are we wasting time and enormous amount of money ....
Secondly I have to leave my parents my house my entire existence and trade it in for something unknown ... am not too sure of that ... its very scary .... i ask you this why cant the husband and wife both move out ?? that way the scales are balanced ... both of them start out afresh ........ equal scare in both the places ..... :)
The entire marriage thing .. the scales are not balanced at all I tell you .... everything is in the boy's favor .... nothing in the girl's favor ...
The good things am looking forward to are the facts that I'll be with the person i want to be for the rest of my life :) ... even if it comes at a price ...
The other good thing is that you have a travel partner now ... yey yey ... :) ... i can go travelling all the time ... love it ... am looking forward for our trip after the wedding ....
I have someone to pamper and be pampered for a long time :) ....
I have my own punching bag ... exclusive .
THe best part I have someone to share the important moments with ...
So I think am lucky .. :)
There are advantages v/s the disadvantages .. sigh a part of life me thinks ...
5 comments:
all i can say is you are the best thing that could have happened to naveen and vice versa... :) wishing both of you a lovely, long and healthy married life....
PS: u r so very true about punching bag..... repeat the first line of my comment with punching bag in mind... :P hehe...
Congrats for getting married...And Best of luck...
Don't worry, first few days are scary for you, and the rest of the life wll be scary for them...
he he he...Joking.
-Vipin
"our trip after marriage" ante... honeymoon alva?
nevermind.. tell yourself the trade off is completely worth and have a ball.. you perform all those funny ceremonies just once in a lifetime, so might as well have fun doing them
i realise i am readin this post really late :) so true tht gettin married is such a wonderful thing.. completely agree with all u say.. sweet thoughts :)
i completely agree with everything u said..... i ve had the same thoughts since marriage :)
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