Musing aloud ........

I have always always noticed this .... when people start working , they never stop thinking about college and school ... all their talk revolves around the people they knew and miss ...

Its almost like they'll never meet the same people or make the same friends....

I think it is true in a way ... we never develop the same bonds as before ...

The draw in school friends is that we all have made the same mistakes , some small some big :) ...

Shared the heart aches .... shared the tensions ...... and all the time thinking that we'll be together ... always having the same fun forever . Only when we graduate the great dirty world begins to intrude ... :(

People at work do not get that close ... we are older wiser and more experienced .. the experience lends a suspision ....... a suspision which makes us hold back ...... the same bond never builds again....

The irony is that you make friends at work and always think that you can never be that close to them ... as you compare your old friends with them ... the ghost lingers ...... but what we all seem to forget is that we'll always end up making the same bonds with them without knowing as we share a slice of our lives with them :) .... and still think that we can never get close to anyone anymore :) ...

Ironical .......